ANIMALS BODY MIND SPIRIT

Birth Trauma

Welcome, this page is SO IMPORTANT. I feel this needs to be checked, addressed, and cleared in every life form who has been impacted by humans at birth on this planet. Yes, our species is hurting new life through our disconnection of who we really are, as a result of our unconscious state.

New Life Birthed on this Planet

How should a being come into the world from the comforts of a womb? French Buddhist obstetrician Frederick Leboyer has written in his book, Birth Without Violence, (1974) how coming into our world is not one of love and peace, but one of deep trauma.

The experience around how we each take our first breath once out of the womb he explains has a direct impact on how we proceed through life. It has a lifetime effect; either one of deep trauma full of panic and fear or one of peace, security and love. It just depends what we each experience. This applies to all life on this planet.

The first option is how most life is being born under human direction and care.

February 2024, I am removing panic, fear, and hatred of the experience which is directed towards the mother for not protecting the being when I work on each being, whether they are human or animal, where the animal born has had human intervention. This is deep, it is not on the surface. One may think the being is okay, they have “moved on” but this again, is just not so. It is all registered in the depth of the being causing immense imbalance and uncertainty in life. This is massive. And I feel it is playing out in our energy fields for our lifetime, as Frederick Leboyer states.

When I go into hospitals, my entire system cringes, retracts, I cannot get out of these facilities fast enough. On the occasion, when I have seen a new baby born, I see equipment everywhere, strong lights, smell terrible smells, the energy is horrible. Why are we still settling for this as a species? So many mothers have terrible birth stories, from the way they were treated, to the way their baby was handled with forceps and force, and what they were exposed to.

Frederick Leboyer explains, Crying does not mean “I am alive”. A crying baby means “I am afraid.” “I do not know what is going on”. “I am in panic” and “I am in fear for my life”. We have been programmed into a fear paradigm without truly understanding the consequences on all life especially the newborn. This is lifetime damage, which must be addressed, cleared, and healed.

We each must drive change here. It would be interesting to dig back into time to investigate how these protocols were established, and became mainstream for our species especially here in the West. We cannot as a species continue to do this and expect a world with no negative consequences. We are consistently birthing fear and panic onto the planet exponentially daily. This is a complete disconnection from who we are and what we are supposed to be about. Light. Massive light, creation, and peace.

Our Animals

Based on what I am clearing and healing, and based on Frederick Leboyer’s work, what I wish to create for all life forms coming onto the planet is the following, with the focus being on the animals here:

Before babies are born:

Chakra system, checked, and intact, energy is flowing as designed
Aura is fully on body and healthy, free of any other energies
Trauma and other energies impacting fetus during incubation all neutralized; checking father and mother too so no cording or negative energies impacting the growing fetuses
Messaging of safety, vibration of safety and love to the mother and her babies, expressing our intention to them all so they know they are beautiful and we are here for them and how loved they are
Checking they do not have any questions before coming on to the planet
Checking no negative imprinting is against the mother or any of her babies
All the above to be applied to the mother too, so she is safe, happy and sound on all levels of her being

During the birth process:

Other animals are kept informed of the duration, process; people may think they know but often they do not
For some animals, based on past experiences with current or other owners, birthing my equal trauma and may actually bring up their own fears and unresolved traumas from giving birth. This is why information relayed throughout the barns and fields via intention is most needed as they are all concerned about one another, and want to know how their ‘family’ is doing

Ideal Birth Environment:

Stillness, humans whispering when words need to be spoken
Quiet
Peace
No movement around mother and her babies from other bystanders
No toxic smells
No radiation from Wi-Fi streams from phones and equipment, cell towers
No personal issues where humans are whirling in their psyche, but humans who have taken the time to calibrate to the event and understand how sacred this is with mind stillness
Where the birth space including all bedding has been cleared of other energies such as negative energies, negative imprinting, thought forms, ghosts, other entities from trauma of souls leaving, dying. (Equipment too, but I am hoping this is not needed)
Where the space has been blessed
Semi-darkness is provided so not a shock coming into the strong light
Warmth
Mother is communicated with, explaining what the humans are witnessing – this can be just through intention so she has confirmation of what we are seeing on the other end; the more information provided the calmer the mother, as this is respectful and dignified communication with another being

For larger animals:

Stalls and location of birth area free of prior birth trauma and imprinting of despair and loss from others prior
Bedding is free of toxins and nanoparticles
Lighting is dim
Area is warm and inviting
Music playing with soothing vibration and healing frequency; some may like this some may not

For some reading this, perhaps you may find this a little “out there” but something to consider, if we all came onto the planet protected, loved, with our energy systems clear of all trauma etc., imagine the world we would create with all this sense of love and security. From my perspective we are not treating our species or any other species on a grand scale we engage with in this way. Some clients will tell me – well the baby did not want to come out. When I learn more about the birth I am – “well, no wonder, I would not want to come out either!”.

I feel we are thinking that because life is small and new it does not know. But it does. This new life knows and has recorded everything since inception. It is how we as a species look after this new life, honor this new life that creates the world we wish to live in. One of trauma or one of love and peace and security.

The Importance of the Umbilical Cord

Frederick Leboyer explains how important this is to not cut immediately, how it is the new born’s best intertest to have this attached while the lungs begin to expand and take in their first breath. To cut prior, is to create panic and fear, while the new born is trying to naturally adjust to the outside world, we must support the process, not “do and be done”. We are damaging the very life form we wish to protect. Once the lungs can be seen working, and oxygen flowing, and no pulse is in the cord ONLY THEN is the cord cut as the new born has calibrated without fear, naturally on his/her own terms.

The Sacred Space of the Head

The head, Frederick Leboyer explains, is sacred space and should not be touched, ever during this process.

I know a lot of cultures have some beautiful practises, where the mother and baby are very much supported and loved, and nurtured. I wish this for all the animals in our care.

Real-Life Experience | How Colic Was Linked to Birth Trauma

I received a call one night regarding a year and half old female horse, colicing. She was lying down. I worked on her gut and intestinal tract first, removing all entities and toxins. The entity was very focused on one of her back legs. I asked why? As usually these energies will always draw on the weakest part of the body. And the answer shared was there was negative imprinting on the stall floor when she was born, and this attached to her when she came out of her mom’s womb.

This was confirmed.

A male horse had been in the stall prior and was not well, and it did not sound like he was being treated like he would like to be treated, and therefore all this trauma was left in the stall from what he had to process. This then transferred onto new life, making the young new born foul’s back leg vibrationally lower and susceptible to imbalance, where then negative energies were able to tap in due to the frequency.

Once I worked on her, and cleared and put everything back together, she was back on her feet, passed gas, and was eating. Very happy! I was so happy to hear.

Do you see how this works? We are so focused on the physical but our world is literally energy. We are all electrical beings, expressing energy in an energetic world, the physical is a by-product of our energy and should not be our focus but used for direction to change our energy to create the world we wish to live in.

To summarize, how are we currently, as a species, embracing new life when it comes on to the planet? We are now forty years later after this wonderful book was written, yet not a whole lot has changed I feel.

Real-Life Experience | Birth Trauma Experienced

This is an example of the horse who communicated that she needed help with trauma experienced with the birth of her second foal. Humans were present, and she does not trust humans. She does not like humans touching her at all.

This is what was registered in her and her foal’s physical body, energetic bodies and soul:

Mother

Panic | 225%
Fear | 600%
Mistrust of Humans | 900%

Her Foal

Panic | 775%
Fear | 900%
Mistrust of Humans | 850%

This was a tough session, to see what we as a species are doing, have done. I apologized from the bottom of my heart for all she had experienced as a result of our species lack of consciousness, and awareness.

When I test these numbers in humans, most are around the 200-300% for a comparative. This was deep, deep trauma. As a result of the above, both animals will most likely not cooperate, be unreliable maybe? as there is so much shock and trauma in them that their entire systems will always be on alert. They will never feel safe on the planet much less in their own bodies.

This experience will, and has impacted the trajectory of their lives, and all those around them as their energy will be unstable and again, affecting ALL life around them.

Please help make conscious change in this area of life on this planet. We have become so disconnected from the very essence of what is sacred to all of us, safety and love.

Inviting a Baby onto the Planet Without Fear and Panic

A Leboyer birth means a full deep relaxed, breath as soon as out of the womb which expands skull structure opening up whole body. The skull is compressed when travelling through the birth canal as intended for natural delivery, is the first breath for expansion, this process is crucial, literally pivotal to the life one leads.

This is a summary of what I learned in Frederick Leboyer, MD’s book, Birth Without Violence. I always reread books, as there is always more information to absorb a second or third time around, I find, but at least this first run through helps others become aware of this subject, on his amazing work I am hoping.

We Have Been Programmed into Thinking & Doing

Crying is LIFE when the crying is indescribable = PANIC and FEAR
Crying = I am in pain, I am suffering, I am afraid
Tidal wave of sensations not even being considered by the outsiders
As adult humans, we are larger, dull beings and have NO concept of what a shock this is to new life coming from complete safety to a clinical loud world
Nothing has been communicated or set up prior or explained
So much unknown, the mother is not able to direct the event, she is a product of it
Holding child upside down by feet = vertigo and straightened spine which has never been straightened, and was connected so deeply to the mother – this is barbaric
Sacredness not honored; offered only panic, noise, disruption, separation
The memory of birth, the terror of birth, remains in each one of us as a dormant fear and pain repressed.
We are treating birth like death. Watching and waiting to see if something will happen, will go wrong.
Holding breath, as many bystanders do = No Life
How we are coming onto the planet is disturbing our “chi” our connection to life as a species
Our first breath is our compass for life, if the compass is full of fear, then this is how life will be navigated.

Persons in Delivery Room

Any repressed anger or nervousness in the delivery room the baby will pick this up. The baby knows everything. Whenever a baby cries, we MUST ask why?

Mother

The very thought of giving birth takes the mother back to birth
Giving birth takes place in an altered state of consciousness

Contrast

Baby has not experienced contrast
Outside of womb – so much contrast it is actually shocking – information overload > too much for new life to calibrate to, and understand all at once

Breath is Life

First breath will be recorded forever on all levels of being
Lungs are not used to processing oxygen; must leave cord intact so body not shocked to draw air
Drawing air may be a shock and painful; depends what is in the air too!
Cord cut too soon, too much pressure on the lungs and conversion – instant PANIC
Oxygen must be supplied by the two sources until the new life is using lungs regularly; allow 4-5 minutes, I test 8 minutes is optimal before cord is cut. This can also be communicated by all those around so the baby knows what is happening. Let them know!
Blood is being rerouted from placenta to lungs – time must be allowed for this conversion
Clamping cord before lungs are fully operative is to deprive the brain of oxygen = Fear of impending death
Cries, small 1-2 times so the baby recalibrating to life outside, this is a new feeling drawing oxygen by itself, cord is to be cut when it stops beating, the lungs have taken on the job now; no trauma, nature has naturally transitioned the new life from the mother to one of independence

Laying

Never lay flat on back; always on stomach on mother allowing the spine to unfold on its time
Spine has been curved the whole time, too much of a shock to straighten all at once
Nature knows, follow the child’s lead
Put on mother’s belly with arms and legs tucked under baby; during this time can watch back and breathing to make sure okay
There is no rush, allow the new life to direct and feel in their own time
Back is where the body received the messages from the mother, now born, how touched crucial

Hands

Move too fast, must move slowly
Must be gentle but firm
Child needs to be massaged; hands move wave after wave down back to communicate safety and love
Everything the hands communicate matters – as the new life will either contract or expand depending on the energy and messaging

Midwife may be better to do this if mother is too emotional from birth

Water Offers Connection to the Womb & Weightlessness

Once cord cut, move to basin of warm water slightly warmer than room temperature
Feet first in water, becomes weightless again
Joy and relief expressed, hard to describe
Tensions melt away; all fear disappears, as safety reinstated
Then begins to explore his kingdom, stretching body parts
Very Important | Feet must be able to touch the edge of the basin else panic, must feel contained like in womb, this is what they know
Bit of a game transitioning out of water, as strange sensation the weight of the body; patience required here, taking new life out and then placing back in until no longer feels uneasy. The importance is no fear, and on their timeline

Movement

No movement is new; so being swaddled and no movement very strange
Has moved from water > land; Movement > stillness
Must allow them to wake up at their own pace, they have so much love, patience and intelligence
Must radiate peace, harmony and security – so no panic or fear

Mother

Baby is then brought back to mother as searching for heartbeat and rhythm
Baby and mother then left by themselves in sacred space

From a newborn’s perspective:

Eyes | Sight

Eyes closed; need to open gently under soft light on their terms
What Is Common & Hurts

Blinding lights
Eyes forced open and chemicals dropped into them | Barbaric

Ears | Hearing

Everything is muffled in womb so when come out – so loud!
Should be whispering
Silence, dispels panic, offers tranquility to new life, meeting the new born on their terms
Minimal people in the room, with respect and supporting sacred space

Skin | Touch

So tender
What Is Common & Hurts

Exposed to metal tables
Hands too rough and fast
Surgical gloves
Rough bedding
Clothes forced onto body “torture” as so confining

Nose | Smell

So tender and new
Should not be processing any of the following as toxic:

Smells of chemicals
Perfumes
Deodorants
Bedding detergents

Birth Without Violencemeans free of conflict, free, and fully awake. So, the question becomes, how do we each change this process and make birth more sacred, lovely, peaceful, and free of panic and fear? This was written in 1974, again, how much has changed in fifty years?

How the Body Keeps the Score on Trauma | Bessel van der Kolk

This is a very important video as it explains how trauma is instilled, and plays out our lifetime.

Resources

Birth Without Violence by Frederick Leboyer

How The Body Keeps Score by Bessel van der Kolk